And if I'm buttoned up in bed, that's not indifference: That's being so turned on that I don't know what to do—yet. If I did hold up a sign (well, dear, you asked), it would say: GIVE ME TIME, AND SPACE. When a shy girl and a shy guy get together, anything can happen.
When you’re a shy girl, life can be a bit of a confusion. [Read: 15 really easy conversation starters to talk to any guy] But you know what?
#15 Guys feel more comfortable talking to a shy girl because they feel like you won’t constantly oppose them all the time just to prove a point.
This makes them feel more comfortable around shy girls. Shy girls keep a guy interested for a lot longer than other girls because the guy would constantly want to know more interesting things about her.
A shy girl can mesmerize any guy when she’s talking to him. #12 A shy girl’s awkwardness makes her more attractive to guys.
When a guy has a conversation with a shy girl, he’ll feel more drawn towards her innocence and fragility.
And the ones who are close to you think you need to start interacting with people more often. You may think you need to be more like one of your girl friends who finds it so easy to talk to anyone she wants to.
You will overcome your shyness soon, when your mind’s ready for it.
After all, it’s just your social anxiety acting up.
You feel like you have nothing important to add to the conversation so you just shut up.